Why Xavier University Students in Cincinnati Sent Me a Petition . . .

Yesterday I had the honor of receiving my first-ever petition from a group of “disgruntled” graduate students. Actually, the petition arrived in my email in-box, but was addressed to my publisher, John Wiley and Sons.

I read it anyway. Here it is:

Petition for Wiley Publishing – 4/27/16

We, the undersigned and overworked graduate counseling students in Dr. Brent Richardson’s Counseling Theories and Techniques course at Xavier University strongly object to the inference on page 480 of “Counseling and Psychotherapy Theories” that  Dr. Brent Richardson only “thinks he is funny.” All of us have chuckled at least one time over the past 14 weeks. We declare that he is actually funny and demand that this phrase be amended to reflect this fact in future editions.


The names and signatures of 14 students followed, along with an electronic copy of page 480.

I have the following response to offer the “petitioners.”

Dear Petitioners.

Your note to Wiley raises a number of concerns.

First and foremost, it makes me worry about the level of academic discourse that may or may not be happening in your class with Dr. Richardson. Here’s the passage toward which you are alleging offense:

As one of our colleagues who thinks he’s funny says, “Sometimes counselors mix up the words eclectic and electric—they think they can just do whatever turns them on” (Richardson, personal communication, November 2002).

I think a close reading of this passage makes it obvious that we’re just maintaining truth and objectivity. In no way are we claiming or implying that Dr. Richardson is NOT funny. We’re only staying within the safe harbor of direct observation. It seems indisputable that Dr. Richardson THINKS HE’S FUNNY. But is he objectively funny? We admit (a) we’ve laughed at him, (b) we’ve seen him laugh at himself, and (c) we’ve witnessed other people laughing at him during professional presentations . . . but how can we be sure that people (including Dr. Richardson) weren’t laughing out of their discomfort because he sometimes uses words like “piss” when he tells counseling stories. We just didn’t feel right privileging the text with our assumptive biases. Let that be a lesson to you in your future petition-writing.

Second, inasmuch as we respect your lived experience and it appears you signed your petition in solidarity, how can we be certain that each of you really think Dr. Richardson is funny? He obviously still has an evaluative relationship with you and, given that relational component, some or all of you may have felt compelled to sign said petition. This is of especial concern because the petition was delivered to me via email from the man who, quite obviously, thinks he’s funny.

Third, and I’m taking an educated guess here, but it shouldn’t be left unsaid that many alternative interpretations exist for you forwarding this petition to me through Dr. Richardson. One prominent alternative interpretation is that vicarious learning/imitation/modeling might have occurred.

In your case, because Dr. Richardson thinks he’s funny and you’ve been exposed to him for the past 14 weeks, you’ve probably started thinking you’re funny too. It’s natural. My evidence? The phrasing,  “We, the undersigned and overworked graduate counseling students . . .” This phrase appears to be an effort at humor. Am I correct? And so I am loathe, but forced to conclude, that you have absorbed Dr. Richardson’s way of being and consequently, are at risk for future incidents where you end up thinking you’re pretty darn funny.

And so finally, to the question of whether I’ll forward this to John Wiley and Sons and make corrections for the forthcoming 3rd edition? The answer: It depends on whether 14 students who may well have been coerced and who most certainly are under the impression that they’re funny, can provide me with more concrete and substantial evidence that either you or Dr. Richardson are objectively funny. . . because I’m really on the fence about that right now.

Sincerely yours,

John SF

Here’s a photo of Dr. Brent Richardson. Does he look funny? Just curious.

Brent Richardson

12 thoughts on “Why Xavier University Students in Cincinnati Sent Me a Petition . . .”

  1. Given your past as a stand-up comic (not to mention, stand-up guy), I’m confident you are qualified to determine what and who is or isn’t funny. As for Dr. Richardson, I think he bears a striking resemblance to Alan Thicke, who is decidedly not funny.

    1. Wow. Judi. Now I have your endorsement that I can act with great authority regarding who is and isn’t funny. That’s the sort of thing that could go to my head. So I’ll be careful. Thanks! John

    1. It is just you Brent. However, I am in agreement with you regarding your book being insightful and funny. And it’s also highly practical. You should be sure to add that when marketing your excellent book.

    1. Some days more than others. What I’ve discovered over time is that I’m usually not as funny as I think I am . . . which could mean I was projecting my own issues onto Brent when I said he thinks he’s funny.

  2. My editor part cringed when I read “Dr. Brent Richardson only ‘thinks he is funny.'” I think they meant to write “only Dr. Brent Richardson ‘thinks he is funny.'”

  3. Overheard outside swanky Hollywood restaurant (by someone other than me):
    Valet 1 “Wow, was that counselor educator and author Brent Richardson who just walked in?”
    Valet 2: “No, that’s just Alan Thicke.”
    Valet 1: “Dang, I read Dr. Richardson’s book and was hoping he would share his “Me Gotta Piss
    story! Guess I will have to settle for stories from Mr. Thicke about dancing and growing
    pains. Maybe next time I can meet a real celebrity.”

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